my best friend and I had sex?

[bill b]

Last year annika and I got pretty close and made out a few times. This year same thing is happening again but we had sex this time.

We talked it all over. We both agreed we love being friends and it comes with benefits at times we both laughed.

She knows I'm a huge player and I'm with different girls a lot but never dating any of them. Sad thing is I want to date annika. But I don't want to ruin our friendship I love it to much. But this really is the only girl Ive wanted to date in like 2 years.

If we are ever to come intimate again what should I say to her to change her mind and make her believe I want her for her not just sex? I know she loves me but doesn't wanna lose me so I need some advice please.

[anniehall666]

I think you should spend more time together doing fun stuff but gently showing her that you care for her. I don't think you should tell her something to change her mind but make her change her mind through doing many things in a subtle way and a long time. Safer, more romantic and more precise.

[bubblez26]

keep it as friends trust me

[Jason G]

Dude, copy and paste this question and description to an email and send it to her.

[Homie G]

Sorry brotha. Freinds aren't supposed to have sex. It's bad. Sex is supposed to be saved for marriage. It's not too late tho. As long as u promise 2 ur self that u are going to change ur ways, it's not too late. You can still have 2nd virginity

[Pink_Elephants]

It sounds to me like you've got things going pretty good. This isn't bad at all.. I think since that is the way you feel- YOU will be able to say whatever comes natural, and she'll react to it in a very positive way.

[Lara]

The best relationships always start with a good friendship. You guys should be off to a good start. Have the long talk. Tell her how fond of her you are and how you feel. Also, tell her what you have in mind....i.e: being exclusive and in a long term relationship. This will decrease any jealousy she may have thinking you are a big player. Just talk everything though and LISTEN when she talks about what she is thinking, what she wants and how she feels. Then you can decide if you are on the same page and should move forward.

[shamcan]

this is easy. if you are close enough just start acting like you are her boyfriend. becuase you are halfway there. but dont come on to strong

[Alyssa K]

i know a guy just like you
do what you think is right
go with ur best friend

[Alex Lee]

Do what your heart tells you.
I guess you are asking this question here because you are afraid that she'll reject being with a relationship with you and wants to remain as friends with benefits.
(Yes, it does happen with girls.)

Show her that you want to commit to the relationship and of course, change your player ways.