hooking up with best friend's ex boyfriend?

[baby j]

i'm in a fight with my best friend, you might have seen my last question. anyway, i'm hanging out with a different friend of mine right now, and she's ALSO in a fight with her best friend. except her fight is way worse than mine. she doesn't have yahoo, so i'm going to let her type her question right below this, help her out!


okay so my "best friend" and her ex broke up over me. she thought he was into me more than he was into her (which he was, but i never said anything about it or did anything with him...). she was mad at both of us for their break up. but i honestly didn't do anything. but she's still SO in love with him and always has been. so anyway, she's the biggest b*tch ever. she completely f*cked me over. i was supposed to go out with this guy last night, who i really like, and she called him and told him that i'm sick and can't hang out with him. and then she told him that i slept with her boyfriend and gave him herpes, and that i'm a really big slut anyway and that he shouldn't even want to hang out with me. you don't understand, i REALLY like this guy. she completely made all of that up. and then on top of that, she e-mails my parents and my little sister (who is 13) and tells them that i'm not a virgin anymore. (which has been true for a while, but they don't need to know that! they're christian and wanted me to save myself for marriage. and i'm supposed to be a role model to my little sister...she's always looked up to me.) she had no right to do that. so you know what i did? i ACTUALLY slept with her ex. he's always liked me, so i thought i might as well make her stupid lie the truth (except for the herpes part, haha). and so today she came crying to me telling me how sorry she was, but that what i did was way worse than what she did to me. and i completely disagree. i think what she did was way worse. she and her bf were broken up anyway, she actually ruined parts of my life. stuff that's going to take a lot of time to get over. who's right here??