I have this HUGE dillema?

[underdogg]

ok its about me and my best girl friend...we have been flirting HARD ever since last yearand call each other pet namesand she did text me something like "...only cuz i like you" or something like that but i really didn't care about thatand when we get together at a restaurant or any place as families, i once lifted her up like the man does to his bride when they get married and she sprayed her perfume on me and her parents laughed about it and we wrestle and we "KINDA" hold hands together for like 2~4 minutes but when her family member sees us doing that, she suddenly backs off.and we are going to hang out soon and I was just wondering if I have ANY CHANCE about holding her hands while we are at a public place....and not make it awkward.that's all...its kinda long...but thank you.

[DivaV]

i think you should approach her about the situation....if you like her tell her and see if she feels the same way....and ask her if she would like to give it a shot...what have you got to lose!!

[killerkim5225]

Ask her out..?Sorry, I don't know what you're asking.

[melly675]

Well it seems as though she likes you, so why not, just don't like push it if she pulls away then make a joke about it and forget it.

[ILLAC]

sounds like you she is in to you, but maybe she is worried about ruining the friendship.and maybe she isn't comfortable showing all that much public affection in front of family (i have a few mates who cant hold there bf's hand if her dad is around) how is she with friends??i would go for it...but be careful cause if you too are just close friends! it might ruin everything.but i am dating my old bet friend (we had same kind of problem you have) and it is really great - we still have a fantastic friendship just with other stuff!good luck hand holding!*also a bit long*