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Old 02-28-2008, 02:25 PM
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i hate my best friend's friends!!! 10 pts for best answer!?

they always exclude me out of things. they're trying to steal my best friend away! i've always seen them & my best friend talking & laughing & it makes me mad. I TRY to get along with them but they just want to hang out with the people THEY choose. when one of her friend was sad about her breakup with a guy, i tried to be nice & comfort her but she doesn't even give a f***. now, when my best friend does it, she's all "thank you, i love you". they don't even fking display me as a friend on their list on myspace & they're OBSESSED with myspace. one of her friend displayed me as #7 on her list but all of her other group of friends putted MY BEST FRIEND as #2 or #3 on their list. i mean, I MET HER FIRST. my best friend isn't completely brainwashed though since i'm still her #2 next to her boyfriend.
the funniest part is that her friends are full of "scene queens" & they act like they're all that. how do i get over her b&itchy friends??
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the ones that you have value you little, you put them on your top friends list on myspace, and they dont put you on theirs, should you just delete them, screw them, make new friends?, when they never call you to do anything, maybe they aren't your friends at all, maybe you are blind that you never had them as friends, maybe blood is thicker than water and you should stick to family

they're sometimes nice to me, & are valued very much, yet they dont even put me on their top list on myspace, fake friends?, I should delete them instead of being fake myself?
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Old 02-28-2008, 02:34 PM
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I think you are way overly concerned about this. Your freaking out about it will only push your friend away. As for the other girls, be polite, but don't take it personally. Try to stay cool. The more you react, the worse it will get.
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I would give this friend some space, leave her alone for a while, say, about a month. If you contact her less frequently you may have more value as a friend. Everyone's needs fluctuate so just give her a little time off unles she contacts you first.
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Old 02-28-2008, 03:58 PM
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its definetly hard to make additional friends especially when it's stepping in on you and your best friend. If you all are real close you need to pull her aside and tell her that she is hurting your feelings and see how she reacts. You will truly know your friends when you really need them. Its just like the song find out who your friends are. If her other friends don't like odds are there not going to not because your a bad person but because they have there own issues. Just remember your not doing anything wrong you just can't make friends with everyone though we would like to. Ive been in the same situation now sadly to say because I didnt talk to her about hurting my feelings she stopped talking to me and now her other freinds are her best friends. Dont end up like me right now I have no friends except my family. Again, youll find out who your friends are.
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