How can I include my friends that don't like eachother?

[emily c]

In my birthday celebration? I really want to have a party for my 15th birthday which is in 2 weeks. However, I have 2/3 different groups of friends. One has 5 girls and 4 boys, Two has 3 girls, and Three is a girl who isn't best friends with either but would get along with both. I don't think my parents would let me/be able to afford two parties but I don't want to leave any of my friends out! What should I do?

[your mom =)]

it doesnt matter
its your party not theirs
if they don't get along then who cares
if they want to start problems and crap tell them to do it somewere else not at your party.


have a fun party =)

[B. Tossed]

you should have only one party.
your friends arent there to worry about who they dont talk to. if they know ppl there thats fine remember the real reason they are at the party..for you! you should also try to introduce one group to the other..so this kind of worriness wont come up again.

[kevin_meade]

They are your friends because they care about you and they have that bonding with you. Accept them for who they are, but also let them know that they are invited because you care for them and that you also would love it if they could talk to all at the b'day party... A simple deed like this would make them feel happy, and u more than content, I am sure...

[asoldierswife]

The reason for a birthday party hun is to bring your friends togehter to celebrate your special day and in the process give them broader people to meet. Friends are people who find common interest in eachother and create more common interest. This is a good start for them as they all are your friends and have something in common, you. So, you don't need a second party. One will do. Unite them all, have fun and be safe

[Alrak]

Well that happend to me, and this is what i did.
U should try getting ur friends together before ur party and let them find the things they have in comon, and if it doesnt work, let them know whats in ur mind, maybe if u let them know theyll get along at lest for that night...

Good luck!

[Barbie!]

I would invite all the people that you are friends with. If they are really your friends they will all be civil to the other people that you invite. Plus, in a large group of people its unlikely that a fight will start. And as long as that person who doesn't quite fit in with either group has someone to talk to, everything will be fine.