In LOVE with my BEST friend...?

[ineedhelp1234567890]

I am male, my best friend is male.

- So far... pretty simple right?

Okay, now go drink a can of red bull or something because things are about to get f*cking crazy.

I am bi (meaning I like both sexes), but my scale tends to lean more towards girls - however there are certain boys I will come across that are special in ways that I become attracted to them.

My best friend - he is the, hottest, coolest, smartest, funniest, person I have ever met. The list of compliments goes on, but in a nutshell - this is the reason I cant let him go.

- Still with me? Okay, please read on...

We have always been "best friends" - however he gives away hints (I think purposefully) almost to make me want him even more.

He glares into my eyes when hes talking to me (even momentarily after we have finished the conversation), he will make an effort to sit next to me (mainly when we play poker and stuff).

I am used to seeing him almost everyday, because he rings me all the time - lol.

- continued...
...Okay where was I ???

- oh yeah,

basically I'm in one of those situations where I feel that he might actually "love" me.

- There is a problem however...

He acts straight in every possible way (well around other people anyway), he talks about "hot" girls often, he claims to have had sex with 3 girls.

By the way, did I mention he is a complete "compulsive" liar (he lies more than he bloody says the truth).

- Interesting situation to be in... no?

I think he knows that I am perhaps interested in him, but as you've probably heard in other questions... "I don't want to lose my friendship, over what could be a misunderstanding"

Is he playing hard to get perhaps?, is he scared?, Is it just me?...

Anyway...

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

WHAT IS THE NEXT STEP IN THIS SCENARIO?

Confused and mildly frustrated, I've been through every stage of emotion possible with this one...

I need your opinion on this, I would be 100% grateful for any help you can give...

P.S:

...please no silly comments

[Amaia]

oh no... i would not risk it AT ALL MAN!

friendship among guys could be close like that, if you really value the friednship dont risk it telling him

unless he knows about you being BI and you reaaaaly think he is into you, but eventhough with that WAit until he is the one coming to you

good luck

[graciegoesbang!]

That's a tough one, I'd say go for it, but then I don't think you should risk ruining your friendship.

GO WITH YOUR INSTINCT