How do I choose between my two best friends?

[Who to choose?]

My best friend used to be really close to a guy and considered him her brother, but when i started to get close to him too she cut off all connection with him. She's always wanted me to stop talking to him but I never did. Finally, she gave me an ultimatum. If i choose him then she couldn't have me as her best friend anymore, to stay close with her i had to cut him off completely. I couldn't choose one over the other so I did nothing and just thought that if i ignored the situation it would go away.

Months have gone by and its still an issue. I hoped that time would ease her pain and it wouldn't hurt her anymore that but it still does. They are the two most import people in my life and i can't live without either one of them. I've been sucessful at making sure their paths don't cross but that doesn't help her forget about how much my talking to him hurts her.

What can i do to help her feel better and show her i care about her without giving him up? Please help, i'm at a loss.

[Ginge146]

If she is making you choose then she is not a true friend- he has the right to talk to you, and you have the right to talk to him. It's your life, not hers!

[!!!Smiley:)!!!]

She dosnet have a right to tell u who to talk to.
I would not be her friend.
thatz just cheap!