help..dont know what to say to a friend when she calls to complain all the time

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about her life? i have a friend that calls me just to complain about her life and her kids...first let me tell you that i have tried to listen and to be supportive but she wont stop ..now i am at a point that if you are unhappy with your life then make some changes..she tells me that her husband doesnt work..but she doesnt want him to either...that he calls her names makes her feel ugly, fat and lazy...he has cheated on her and had his ex-girlfriend living with them ..the ex is now in jail and when she gets out he wants her to move back in and if the ex doesnt then he will leave my friend...so i told her to throw him out..that he is already telling her that he doesnt want to be with her...she gets ssi for her and one of the kids plus gets alot of money from one of the fathers of her kid but then she crys to me that she doesnt get any foodstamps...then she crys about how bad her kids are in school..and how dirty her house is..yet she sleeps all day while the kids are in school and makes the kids clean