My gf of 7 months is going to some crazy SB hotel in mexico with a friends family,

[Steve L]

should i worry? She is gong to Cancun Oasis, and i have heard this is a crazy party hotel. She has told me repeatedly she would never cheat on me, and i know we are in love after 8 months of being together. when she goes, even a slight kiss of some crazy college spring breaker down there will cause me to break up with her-its all about being loyal, right? I mean, there are some girls that go to Cancun and aren't make out sluts every night at bars arent there?.. she is a strong girl and i know she will tell a guy no if he tries for anything but like any other girl but alchohol gets her going! any input will help!

[Cheergirl27]

Well if you don't think she is being honest just have her write you everyday or have her make a little video everyday and night and have her mail it to you so you know that she isn't cheating. It is okay there is nothing to worry about unless you know if she loves you or just likes you. But I am so sure that she loves you so much that she would never cheat on you. Just hang in there and try my advice.

[OBBSSESSEDxMUCHx13]

You need to chill.
She obvously loves you, and you need to trust her. I know it will be hard, but its something you have to do.

[worldemperor]

If she kisses another guy... well... if she's drunk then forgive her. It's not a big deal as long as it doesn't happen again. Just trust her.

[wastingtime]

Don't be silly. A drunken kiss with a stranger who you'll never see again is nothing, it's not disloyal. You're already making up reasons to dump her and trying to separate her from her friends and family.

[~summerfling~]

trust her. there's nothing else you can do.
worrying just gives you wrinkles.

[Rook]

if she's gonna cheat, she's gonna cheat. Worrying endlessly won't solve anything except make you appear to be a possessive freak. And the tighter you hold on, the harder the bird tries to fly away,