Im grossed out by my friend and being negitive to her? Am I being to hard on her?

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Im grossed out by my friend doing this, but she says it wasn't her fault. I find myself being really negitive towards her for what she did because i it was very wrong what she did.

Who is right, me or her? Was it her fault or am I being to hard on her?

She got drunk with her married friends and woke up in the bed with both of them. She was completely naked and the guy friend told her that her and him had sex. She asked if the wife did too and he said no she was passed out drunk. She feels grossed out and doesn't talk to them anymore because he did this to her while she was blacked out and couldn't remember what she was doing.

I told her it was her fault for getting drunk, but she says it isn't because it happened at a point where she was blacked out and wasn't in control of her actions. She doesn't remember a thing and its bugging her that all this happened without her knowing or being in control.