| Hi, should i marry a girl who is "socially and "politically" better for my...
...career or the girl whom i love? Am in a total fix! Should I marry a girl who has a "connected" family which can benefit me in my career and make me move up a few notches in the society but never truly loving her and not being happy with and chances are I would not be able to forget the girl I love who might not be helpful for my career but make my life heaven. Should I take a chance with her or should I take the sure road to success without much real happiness? Problem being, whether to go with the heart or the mind?
Am in a total fix! Should I marry a girl who has a "connected" family which can benefit me in my career and make me move up a few notches in the society but never truly loving her and not being happy with and chances are I would not be able to forget the girl I love who might not be helpful for my career but make my life heaven. Should I take a chance with her or should I take the sure road to success without much real happiness? Problem being, whether to go with the heart or the mind?
(Update- the girl i love got married a couple of years ago but is ready to leave her husband whom she does not love but just living her life with and doesn't have any kids with him) would it be fair for her, even though i love this girl and like some have said too shallow or maybe to scared to accept her because of society, career and trivial things which matter to some which makes them matter to me because success and money are important!
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