How to be happy? :( love?

[MaribelleB]

Today, I just woke up..sad, and kind of lonely. Which is stupid, as I have lots of college friends and high school friends. I have a great internship I'm going to start soon, and I have an awesome evening job with people I consider like my second family. I don't know why I'm sad. Is this stemming from being single all my life? Guys always pass me over for someone else and I never know why. My friends (girls and guys) say I'm attractive. (Well, I guess I miss my college friends too...a lot of them are abroad or live out-of-state, my school is 4 hours away)Also, I feel like I can never do anything right at all. Like if I were to give in to the romantic/personal life, I'd jeopardize my education. Like, I can't have fun without it costing something. I'm forgetful sometimes too. I just feel...melancholy...how do i get out of this rut?

[AudreyKing]

You are at an age where naturally you feel you need a companion. Remember humans are reproductive organisms and this is our main goal in life is to reproduce. At your age biologically speaking you are way overdue to reproduce. However, in todays time and culture, you are too young to reproduce. Your SOUL thirsts for a meaningful relationship, specifically the special relationship between a man and woman. This is a powerful thing the true love of man and woman, one that many soul's strive to achieve. you can fill this void by finding a man in your life. The fact that you have no experience of a man in your life leaves you depressed. You don't need a guy around to fix your problem though, instead concentrate on yourself. You need to concentrate on doing good, excercise, and try your best to be your ideal self. Focus on your values and morals. Define yourself, but be open to change and new ideas. Someone will come into your life, especially when you are not thinking about it. When you are having fun with yourself and friends, getting into new activities and getting into new ideas you higher your chances of meeting someone and raising your chances of being compatible with them. Also, enjoy being single, because true love is hard work, and not as fun as being single. Good luck!

[devm]

Go out and treat yourself to something really nice that you enjoy. Just keep positive and look at how lucky you are especially compared to some others.

[Hottie9548]

Think happy thoughts! sry i didn't really read all that!

[samianquazi6134]

I'm the same way!!!!Maybe you'll meet someone and you'll be in love! ))And yes, when you find Mr Right I'm sure you'll be happy )

[Omgzjustin5065]

I don't know... I just got out of 6th grade and I miss being away from all of my friends.

[GwenH9619]

i have the same problem. I feel like I can't do anything. My self esteem is so low. I have a husband but i am depressed a lot. I don;t know what to do just wanted to tell u, u r not alone

[DudeItsMe]

I think that you have so much on your shoulders that you try to use this as an excuse to not have a 'real' social life... You distance yourself from other people on purpose, so this way you don't have to deal with any issues because all the things you do.(Have on your shoulders)I say, find more time for yourself... The only way you can be happy is doing things you like to do...Don't worry about anything. Then try doing less stuff that causes stress. Stress may be your problem, do things that relax 'You'.

[heyhay4120]

a nice bubble bath and then curl up on the couch and watch your fav tv show episode or movie.or workout and get pumped up and then you will have endorphins or whatever they call themor reach out to a family member or counseling hot line and VENT. you will feel much better =]

[jake5110]

uhh ray T is wrongno suicidetake a vacation