| Am I selfish? I want to wait to try and concieve to have the baby in the summer
because I am in education? My husband says that I am being selfish... We have no children and two miscarriages... I have just completed my graduate program and will be starting my first year in a new profession... I don't want to leave... like three months in. First I told him I wanted to wait until I finished my degree now he thinks I am making excuses because it is always something... But I think the summer will be perfect.... But he also says that we have had problems in the past so there is no promise that things will be as simple as "planning to have a child" Am I being selfish or should we just not use condoms and let things happen as they may? I don't know
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