| Can you tell me WTF this means?!!!?
So i met this guy around september of last year. It took a while, but we finally exchanged numbers and started talking, then we went on a date that moved pretty fast. However, we did not have sex. Then we went out again and he planned this really nice picnic, only it was too cold and we couldn't stay out long so we left early. He has been to my house twice and during this seven month period we called each other and communicated on holidays as well. Then he stopped calling me for like 5 days and I called him and we started talking again. That's what led to the picnic date. Then like a month later, he stops calling again, and this time I'm like no way. I am not going to look like a psycho for you. So I wait it out and see if he calls. He waits two weeks and calls me, leaving me a message that he was out of state. I call him back, he doesn't return. A few days later, he calls, the phone is in my hand. He lets it ring once and hangs up. Then he doesn't attempt to call again.Five days later, he shows up at my job, looking through the racks. I notice him, and I become nervous because I don't know if it is him. So I go to the restroom, hoping that if it's him, he'll be gone by the time I get back. I'm coming back and we literally don't say a word to each other as we walk by. He gives this "so what" look, like he could care less about me, which caught me off guard, so I did the same. Since then, no calls from me or him. I would never call him again after that. Why would he stop calling me for close to a month, and when I call, he doesn't return my call or lets the phone ring once so that it shows a missed call on my phone. He was giving all the signs that he wasn't interested, so in order not to look desperate, I didn't pursue communication with him beyond two calls. Then he shows up at my job and does that. He clearly doesn't care, and I don't want to look manic, so I kept it cool. But why would he do that?I agree, I wasn't playing his games.
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05-15-2008, 09:54 PM
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