I got the number to call to report abuse from my mother!! Final solution Advice?

[EdS8061]

I’m posting this question and ppl r getting mad because I ask it so many times. Just want to say this is important to me. I want to get as much advice as possible tomorrow I want to do this. Once again I spoke to my guidance counselor at school told her I wanted to report abuse on my mother. I told her the truth what happened that we went McDonalds with my mother and my little bro. We were flinging ketchup at each other and some got on the floor it got on some ppl we were fooling around. The manager came to the table and told us to stop my mom comes out of the bathroom saw what we did she flip out for know reason. She asks the manager if he had high chairs and bibs and diapers for us her two babies meaning me and my bro and she wants to send me to camp this summer. She told me NO it’s not abuse and I should be counting my lucky stars and grateful and thanking my mom for being so nice to me. She had balls to tell me that most parents and including herself would of have me and my bro wearing bibs and diapers by the end of that week. She told me to leave I’m wasting her time I told her I want a number to call. She said fine here is a number she warns me im making a mistake if I call. like she cares. She’s going to lose her job now because counselors are supposed to be honest with ppl and there not suppose to lie to them. I know she don’t have my interest at hand. Her saying that her and most parents would do to me and my bro if we were there kids with the bibs and everything is a lie No parents would do that. The place is called DYFS the number she gave me to call. Question has anyone ever had dealings with this DYFS? And can you tell me how fast they act? How soon will they take my mother away? And do you think I have a lawsuit against the school and the counselor for lying to me? NOW EVERYONE WENT TO APPLEBEES’S AND I HAVE TO STAY HOME!

[reefshadow5194]

Act like a baby, get treated like one. Grow the hell up. Personally I like your mom's idea, and will remember it for when my baby is a teen (although I can't imagine her being as disrespectful as you)You throw food on me and I'll do *way* worse than what your mother did to you. Nobody on this earth owes you respect and consideration, you have to earn those things. Get off your high horse, get your head out of your azz, man up and shut up until you can think and act like a young adult.Oh, and BTW- If DYFS is crazy enough to do anything about this, enjoy your new foster home. You won't be going to Applebees there, or even McDonalds. You'll get to enjoy sharing a room, having only a small space for your things, and *very* strict rules.

[Cham8039]

SORRY if your FLINGING ketchup in a store a restaurant I would have done the SAME THING..I am a mom of 2 ..My kids HAD respect and never did this in a place!your mother is FAR from abusing you and I think you need to knock your CRAP off!your LUCKY she does not beat you!! I know I would haveyou know my son was skipping school I told him do it ONE more time AND i am walking you class to class in my bathrobe and slippers..WELL GUESS WHAT..he did it again and I Went to school like that...saying NATHANNNNNN come one time for your next classssssssHMMM..I would suggest STOP being a lil SNOT!

[the_silverfoxx4684]

stop acting like a baby ok

[disilike1452]

Grow up and stop giving your mother a hard time. I would have whupped the mess out of you right there in McDonalds.

[JakeStradlater2440]

First off, I don't know how old you are but you seem like an immature child. You were acting like a child in McDonald's and your mother just told you she was going to treat you like a baby based on your behavior. If she can't even leave you alone to go to the bathroom then you must be extremely immature. Please don't call on your mother, you deserve much worse than what shes done. If you were my child I would put you in a potato sack and beat you with bamboo sticks until you learned to behave and act your age.

[Melanie2713]

This has got to be a joke question.Very funny.

[LilaS]

you're retarded, you know she's the only person in the world who cant help loving you unconditionally?

[rrm386548]

DYFS has much bigger fish to fry... I can assure you. See, there are kids out there who are having their bones broken and are being burned, hit or otherwise physically tortured by their parents as I type. Those are the kids that DYFS is there for. You will be at the very bottom of their priority list, so you shouldn't expect anything in the way of action anytime soon, if at all. If you are old enough and coherent enough to type out the story you just posted, then you are old enough and coherent enough to know not to act like an idiot in public. While my approach might not have been identical to your mother's in the same situation, I can assure you that your butt would have been in a world of hurt. You certainly wouldn't have access to a computer to be typing your pity story. Do everyone a favor and learn from your mistake. Don't abuse the child welfare system. It's there for kids who really need it, and you don't. Keep in mind that if you cry wolf and abuse the system too many times, you'll land your butt in some type of juvenile correction system. If you think your mom is bad, you haven't seen anything yet. Be thankful for what you have.

[booboo0542]

obviously you didn't get your bottom spanked often enough as you were younger-because you would have known how lucky you were just to be embarrassed and not had your backside warmed up. You remind me of so many primaddona kids today who cry wolf whenever the parent threatens to teach a child a lesson-I think you need a firm response behind the woodshed for even considering calling your Mom out on such a stupid incident that by the way you initiated. Don't cry over spilt milk.