Is it clingy to text him while he's on vacation?!?

[Kirsten5143]

He's my good guy friend. The last 6 months we grew really close, and are like best friends...i think. Anyway, i think he likes me and i like him too. So he's visiting back home for 2 weeks, he comes back saturday night. He texted me a lot a few days after he got there, but it was just about how school was going and stuff. And then I texted him the other day for his bday. Its been a few days and I think I'm going crazy. BUT, since we're just friends and i technically don't know how he feels about me...is it better to just wait it out till he gets back saturday and then talk to him? I really don't wanna seem clingy. And plus, I think he may have found out I like him, but the day after that he talked to me for like 9 hours, so i dunno what that means...pretty confused. Not even sure what i'd say to him if i text now

[punk_chick80210]

Text him!!!! ask him how things are going with his family. "Hey! how's everything going with the family?""Are you having fun?"Guys love being asked about what THEY are doing and what their interests are and whatnot. Makes them feel like they're the center of the universe especially when it's a girl they like and they aren't just going on and on about themselves.If he found out you like him and talked to your for 9 hours after the fact, there's NO harm in texting. In fact, if you wait til he gets back to talk to him, this could come across as a loss of interest. Think of it from his point of view. I text a girl, have a great time talking to her, she says hey for my birthday but then the entire rest of the trip I don't hear from her at all all of the sudden. It never hurts to check in It shows that someone actually cares and misses him. Note: I know someone gave me a thumbs down and Im not sure exactly why. But seriously, I've been in this exact same situation from what you're describing and it always brings a smile to someone's face when they feel like they mean something to someone. And to check in and see how things are going with his family is a ++++++++++ across the board.So read over my slightly rewritten post.Take it or leave it, but I know what I'm talking about

[whizkid5253]

from the looks of it ,it seems he likes you too...but i think you should wait and have a one on one conversation about this..its way better that way...meanwhile you could just text him a hi...no harm in tht....

[wildflower1885]

I would only text him in response to a text he'd sent me. I wouldn't initiate any texting; leave that up to him. You said he talked to you for 9 hours... was that on the phone? or texting? That is not good for the r/s. It will "burn" him out. Guys don't have a need to talk like girls do. So don't let phone calls drag on and on for hrs. When you need to "talk" something out, go find your best girl friend and have at it, but not with him. Save the really important stuff to talk over with him.

[HowAboutDemCowboys]

,Hi I would let him finish his vacation, gets pretty busy when you go home. And plus it really gives him time, to miss not hearing from you. That's always good for the heart and soul. Keep busy keep him, in your thoughts. And after he is back, for a couple of days. Talk to him let him know, your true feelings. That is always the right thing to do. You sound like you, are in love with him. Find out if his, heart loves you right back. Just say the words. And when two people talk, for 9 hours its more than just friends. Good luck sweetie and I wish the two of you well.