Can the Mother In Laws, really mess up the marriage when the wife is very...

[Ozzy]

...close to MIL??? Lately, it seems my wife pays much more attention to her mom than me. I hate this! This sucks! I guess this is normal-huh guys?? Thanks
How in the world can a husband be happy with a woman, thats too close to her mom and [[listens]] to her much more than the husband. Its like the role model of like mother-like daughter deal. I don't mind my wife being close to her own mom, but when she pays much more attention and listens to her more than me-this really is causing a conflict. Should I worry about this?? For example, I want for my wife to dress the way I want her to dress for me and she listen to her mom-not to dress according to my own standards. And there is a lot more to this-not just the dressing part! Bummer! (