My Marriage is in a mess - HELP!!!!?

[ladyjk75]

I am the wife of a complusive gambler who spent over 100K in GBP Gambling, that was 3 years ago, he was going to gamblers anonymous for 3 years but has not been for 6 months as he says he no longer needs it and he won't do it again. A month ago he said we are over and he's mixed up about whether or not he wants to be with me. We still live in the same house but have seperate rooms, he is nice to me but cannot pay me off in order for me to sign the house over to him and cannot commit to making a go of it. I am also in debt as a result of trying to enable to live over the past 3 years. I cannot move out until he pays me off. I love him and want the marriage to work but can;t help thinking he is gambling again, his personality has changed, he used to be lovely, now he seems to be living in a dream world where he seems unable to communicate with me about our marriage. Can anyone give me a idea as to what is going on in his head. He says he is not gambling now. Both mid 30's no kids.