marriage help...?

[sweet_one_07_69]

My husband and I have been married for going on 6 months. The first few months were amazing. Now it's like he doesn't want to be married anymore. He's always texting other women and sending them messages on here. He refuses to help me do anything unless it consists of his car. We have a three week old daughter that is currently in the nicu. He is always making excuses to get out of doing things with me like going to the movies or just spending time with me here at home. Tonight he made the excuse that he's tired so we can't go and see our daughter. I don't know how much longer I can honestly put up with his crap. He knows what I think about him texting and messaging other girls. It is causing trust issues between us and I'm afraid that I'm going to lose him. Does anyone have any advice to help me out??
This is real! Even before our daughter was born he wouldn't go to the movies. We can't be in the NICU 24/7, right now there is only so much we can do. She was 13 weeks early. As for talking to him about it, I have tried. I told him stop or I'm gone and the baby is going with me. He was doing really good up until the past three weeks. He is constantly texting them. I pushed all of my guy friends away when I got married because I didn't want anyone coming between us. He won't push any of his girl friends away. I am seriously to the point where I don't know what to do. I don't want to be too controlling.

[abc]

what???? ...you even thought of going to the movies when you have a baby in the nicu??????? this can't be real......