if i am wrong being divorce i beleave the child issue gov.extra check coming in...

[linda t]

...the mail ,? i want the check for each of my 3 kids ..to be put into a saving investment toward there collage .my kids live with me sence he claims the kids on taxes being the bread winner ,i dont think its fair for him and his new wife of 1 year to be able to spend that extra tax break on there bills or shopping .i am nice to alound them to claim the kids because i feel bad for him having to pay child support.but this extra check i beleave should again be spent on the kids towards an investment for there furture.They do not help with anything beside child support. no help with school ..extra sports as football,cheerleading nothing .Our kids are not to ask from nothing infront of there fathers wife because he told them it make his new wife angry.Let's remind our self he makes 130 year with out her and she makes 30,000.00 a year and has no kids .am i wrong for feeling this way .I am all about the kids ..i dont want the check for me .
let me say his wife has nothing to do with the child support money ! i let him lower the child support to the lowest guildlines .He owned back child support over 9 grand .i am far from selfish and i want the kids to be able to have the education that i couldnot have ,so that they can read and spell ,something i am no good at.My point is I dont get alot of income i am not on no welfare and what i got is what i work for .my kids get all the child support spent on them and i fathly invest saving bonds and make sure they get the best educaton ,and nice cloths and extra that my parents never gaven nor got me .if any matter i think the x husband and his wife is selfish .ex: my son said daddy i want a yoyo he scream @ him and said dont ask me in front of ......[his wife]and he goes and buy 300.00 pockey books for her and you can 't buy your only son a fucking yoyo that cost a whole dollar!! let me say our kids make honnor roll and there good kids .
the 9 grand i told him not to worry about shove it up his ass ..i just wish he would do something for the kids furture .is that too much to ask from him...we share hoildays.easter last year he forgot to get them thank god i got them easter baskets ... he said u can have them u know i dont beleave in this hoilday and went to easter dinner w-his wife family ,never call they ask i am sick of making up lies to cover his hateful ways and make him look good ..i wait till that day the kids find out i been lieing for him all these years to make him look like a great dad...what u do ?i can pull it into court but that would only hurt the kids ...it ok he shows up in and out of there life as he please...how am i selfish...

[ablex]

If you are concerned for your kids, then you should claim the tax exemption for them yourself if you pay income tax. They set it up the way they did for a purpose - take advantage of it.

[Booger]

If you do get any money, take some of it and go back to school and learn HOW TO SPELL!!!

[cavorim]

Don't know your laws but if you don't work you can't claim any tax breaks and if he is paying child saupport I can't see why you would begrudge a tax break - could you just be being greedy? What your husbands wife earns has nothing to do with you - do you really think she shoul dhave to pay for your kids.