Divorced with kids.?

[coby]

I'm a single man in my thirties and i have dated my girlfriend for just under 2 years. She has 2 kids. We love each other very much but I have a concern. She was divorced 2 months before we started dating. To this day I have not met her kids and I have not not pressured her into doing that. But it takes time away from us. We only see each other 2-3 days a week and I want our relationship to move foward but it won't unless I meet her kids. It would be nice to go to her house few days a week but she refuses if they are there. Like I said before, i have been patient but want things to be closer. What should I do?

[Michael D]

I am divorced with kids. So let me tell you my thoughts. As a single parent the primary concern is the mental and physical health of our children. I will not bring any woman around my children until I feel they am me are ready, even thought this is no one right now. She is probably afraid that the kids will think you are trying to replace there father. This is a difficult time for the kids. See must care for you or it wouldn't have lasted 2 months. Tell her how you feel in wanting to meet the kids in her time. Let her feel comfortable that you willing to wait until then. You are lucky to get 2-3 times a week. Be happy you have a woman that wants to be with you and wants to take care of her kids. Talk to her and understand.