He hates kids and think marriage is over rated, but wants to be with me...

[the_art_child_flys]

...forever. I don't know what to do Help? He really needs me right now in his life, and he would be devistated if I left him. I've liked his best friend much longer than we have been going out. He knows this but trys to ingnore it. and lately the things he's saying seem to keep pushing farther and farther away of what I once felt for him. Plus his best friend treats me way better than he does, and I think I have a stronger connection with his friend than with him. I'm really lost in what to do. There is more to all of this, but I just don't know what to do. People keep telling him he's driving me away a little at a time, but I don't think he care what they say. Because he "knows" I would never leave him.

[crazy8eddie]

These are bad reasons to be in a relationship. Everything you talked about, was about him. What about you? What about your happiness. This is emotional blackmail. He is using you. You should seriously think about leaving and finding a normal guy. You have a right to your own happiness.

[Mixie]

don't stay with someone because they need you. stay because they have lots of money and a nice house and cool car.