Arranged marriage fiasco?

[Vishy]

I know someone who got arranged married afta comin outta relationship where the woman cheated...He married after being emotionally forced to be with someone he wasnt attracted to keep his folks happy and is now not even physical with her (his granny was gettin ol and wanted to see him 'settled' b4 she said goodbye to the world)...the chick hes married to is too nice and religious a chick and hes says hes not getting satisfied at all (says she lays stone cold on bed and doesnt give him oral)...he doesnt knw wat to do and me as a friend cant also help him (since i keep tellin him hes a moron to have gone ahead). i cant ask him to divorce since that will tear his family apart. asked him to go to a prostitute to get his rocks off but he thinks its morally not right to cheat. All in all, him not gettin action is like steam buildin in a cooker. what should he do?

[Cham]

this is why people should live for themselves NOT the parents..you are not responsible for your parents happiness ..they raised you thats all they can do after your 18 ..your on your own...he needs to grow some you know whats and tell his family IT IS HIS LIFE...they will be made be boogers for a while BUT they will come back around...when does he start living for him and what makes HIM happy

[???]

he can totally teach her to do what he wants and threaten to leave her if she doesn't.
or he could just leave her.