Why would she do this?

[DoctorYanda4606]

I think my friend is trying to be something she's not. She has always been fairly quiet, has only ever been with one guy whom she married recently. The last time we went out she was going off on one about how exciting she was as she loves to go clubbing every weekend and get smashed (she's 31 now). She craves attention from guys when we do go out together and it's almost like she feels she must get attention otherwise she won't have a good evening. I don't think her marriage is that great, I think they are more like friends as the don't have sex much. She says they are planning to have kids this year (which I think is mad if she is crazy about partying now). I went on facebook recently and shes put these dodgy pictures of herself in her underwear in really sexual poses - it's quite embarrassing as she doesn't look good. What is going on, has she lost the plot. Is she struggling to get her youth back or does she need my help? She has also never left the town she was born in?

[xxch0pstixx9093]

I don't see what the town question have to do with the rest. (Maybe I'm just slow)But please stop her from having kids if she's into partying like that.Because I don't see any good from it. Its only going to end up in a divorce. And divorce is not a good thing for kids. Neither is fighting between the parents. (its very foreboding) My parents argue and is on the brink of divorce. And its a horrible thing to deal with. I'm so tired now due to stress. I can't concentrate on my homework. I love interest in drawing, which I used to love to do and was so passionate about. I've gotten lazy. And you don't know how much tears I've split over the past 3 years.And kids wouldn't want a mom like that. (I certainly don't.)

[SarahM4646]

Some people get to an age and realise that they missed out on their youth, and try to make up for it.And some do like to try and get back to their youth,Some like to try and make people jealous of them by bragging about their lifestyle,And some don't get attention from their partner so try and get it elsewhere.It seems like a big show she puts on to make her life appear more exciting than it really is, and unfortunately anything you say to make her feel like she has been acting foolish might embarass her a lot.If you don't enjoy being her friend then move on, but if you do then don't tolerate it to the point of her really irritating you!

[JK4893]

well first i think ur being too judgemental of your friend. To alot of people marriage becomes boring and routine, maybe she just wants alittle excitement once a week i don't think its bad as long as she doesn't cheat on her husband. Maybe she has some self esteem issues? but dont we all? i say just let her be.

[poppingmypants]

maybe shes abit low on confidence and trys to build it up by gettin attention from other men and i dont see any thing wrong with goin clubbin all the time before she starts a family shes just havin a life before she does

[Mimi4653]

Some people just need attention to validate themselves. She seems like a classic example of this. She yearns for validation, which, perhaps she once had with her husband, but it's now gone from her. She SAYS they're planning on kids, but that might be another part of her facade. She also probably always wanted to be that sexy beautiful party girl and is realizing that she's not but is kind of delusional and forces herself to think she is. Lots of stuff going on here. She'll probably get over it in a while, and turn back into her normal self.

[Knowitall8612]

the answer is simple .........YELLOW TEETH!