How can I heal my broken heart?

[baverianbmw740il]

How old are you? and man, seriously u need to move on. life will go on, go out there and don't be afraid to approach woman, and don't think that by not trying your soul mate will majestically appear one day to take your hand and tell u i do. believe it or not, finding your soul mate can be hard, just go for it. u only live once

[MCCHOCO]

Only time can heal that wound. Get out with friends and relatives to take ur mind off her and so you wont fall into a depression. Try going out on dates with women. You will find the person God meant for you to have.

[brettk]

you are nice and the whole thing and whatever, but you are not happy. you were holding out hope big time for her, and if not, it is at least annoying that she is off the market.please pray with me: lord jesuse, please help me and what's his name, please help us to bring his girlfriend, his one true love closer. please lord jesus, let cancer or a car accident be into... be.. let cancer happen to, or a car accident happen to this guy. i ask of you this only this jesus. amen.

[TanyaKapoor]

you guys dated 14 years ago ? and ur heart is broken NOW ? ordinarily i would suggest some medication for people who have bad memories .. but i dont know of any medication that forces amnesia. Dude wake up ! get a job, find a new interest .. watch a movie .. read a book. An empty mind is a devil's workshop. If you occupy yourself and your mind .. you wont have time to think about things. And even if you do think, its ok ... feel your emotions, let them pass through you .. that's the best way to heal.

[JASONBABB]

How to recover from a broken heart am writing this article for the women and men that just cannot seem to get past the love they've shared with someone , at one point or another. I know from experience that sometimes it takes a little longer recovering from a broken heart. The majority of the time after the recovery someone new has to deal with our bitterness from our prior relationships. Why? Why must another person put up with our prior insecurities leading up until now? Why should an individual reduce themselves to as little as nothing because you have issues? They shouldn't! We shouldn't!; and love doesn't work that way! Love is a powerful force that grabs you suddenly and when things don't go your way and you find out that you are the other its hard to let go. Your feelings are involved but at some point you have to say to yourself "they don't deserve me" Well today this article will give you a couple of options of letting go.Step1You're just getting out of a relationship keep busy. The last thing you want to do is sit around and think about the good times you've shared. Doing this you'll have no other choice except to loosen those emotions slowly with time. Step2Go out with your friends without feeling guilty. Don't drink too much or else the first thing that will pop into your head is your former lover. Alcohol will make you call that person immediately you'll make a contained situation go from bad to worse. If you are indulging in alcohol pace yourself and keep your mind from wandering in that direction. Step3Stop thinking about how the other person has hurt you. Eventually you'll want revenge and think up ways to pay them back. This isn't good (idle time is the devil's workshop) Let go and let God. God will take care of you especially if you are right and your partner is dead wrong. Step4Take your time pursuing another relationship. Don't jump into anything you are unsure of or as they say find a re-bound - (someone that can be used to show your Ex that you are doing just fine without them) you can do this on your own. No need to get someone else's feelings involved that may end up hurt in the end. Step5Move on with your life! There are too many women/men in this world to get frustrated or become insane over one. Don't blame yourself for all of the reasons your relationship didn't work out but instead learn from it.

[PaganDan]

This doesn't sound like a broken heart to me. It sounds more like nostalgia, and a longing for what might have, could have, would have been.It's not healthy. I don't think you are being honest with yourslef when you say you're happy for her. You aren't. You're happy when your sister or your daughter, or a non-relative in whom you do not and never have had a romantic interest, gets married.You are alone and sad for reasons unrelated to your high school sweetheart ,or the news that she is now married.She's off the market. Even if she would leave her husband to come back to you, do you really want to be married to someone who would do that?Find a nice girl, and move on.WAIT A MINUTE!!! I GET IT!!! You're hoping that some nice girl on YA will appear.You need a real girl. Not a blowup one, or an electronic one.

[dollytr]

Sometimes you've got to just gloss over it (sorry- but what I mean is become superior to this knowledge. So you're probaly not going to forget it for awhile but you can do as you say and be genuinely happy for her and while you're doing this find something to get into; like a hobby, find something your good at, get a little spiritual, don't focus all your thinking on her. Just let go and open yourself to opportunitys you might be missing. Get some angel guidance cards i've got some, they are heaps cool! like tarot. Finding a mate is not the only thing in this world and in your life...you have to think about the other areas! Get a pet. Or do you have one already? You'd be suprised how companiable a dog is especially chi chis as they are really 1 person dogs. Listen to some music mate, music is awesome and so powerful.

[Sweety3754829]

You will find that one person who you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with. When your least expecting her she will come into your life. Just don't look too hard. It seems when you aren't looking things happen. Good Luck and cheer up it will be ok

[MichaelH5777]

Oh sweetie, I understand. The best thing to do is distract yourself. Think about other things, look into community projects you could become involved in, get involved in a charity, focus on something other than yourself, take a class in something you've always wanted to try but never have, woodworking? Photography? Auto Mechanics? This tactic really will work and you could meet your Perfect Someone in the bargain!

[ChalkBoard]

well u probably never got over her in the first place. thats why u feel bad. but i guess u never will. its been 14 years right? everyone has that one person theyll never forget and it isnt always the person u end up with. if u cant forget it just accept it.