Do the Marriage vows, “forsake all others” include this?

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Do the Marriage vows, “forsake all others” include this?

My wife of 12 years had a passionate French Kiss with an old school friend during a high school reunion. After a blow up at home, and her denying it meant anything at all!? She promised not to have any more contact with him (to put my mind to rest). I have just discovered that she IS still keeping in contact with him over the internet, apparently just to swap photos of the reunion and talk about old times etc. This guys presence is now bugging the hell out of me, especially after my wife promised not to contact him any more. To me it looks like something more than “friendship” is happening.

I have explained fully to my wife why I don’t not want him in my / our life and she agreed, obviously to keep me happy. She has just ignored my request. I feel like I should get “re-acquainted” with one of my old school girlfriends, and swap some spit (if that’s all that happened when she met her old friend) and see how she takes it.

What is my wife doing upsetting me like this??