Why do so many black guys have bad or negative opinions about black women where dating and marriage is concern

[lana j]

I'm a blk woman and I'll be the first to admit that I did grow up a bit sheltered. I didnt know about all these racial problems between blk people themselves. I thought that only others could have neg attitude towards black ppl or women. As I've been dating I've met soo many blk guys who have really bad attitudes about black women even to the point of prefering not to date them at all. I just find this sad and a bit insulting. Guys that I just met and who dont know my attitude at all will tell me that "black women aren't submissive or are too aggressive ect" I am a very nice, pretty easy going woman, I like all kinds of things, I'm not closed minded, and I have very long real hair lol or whatever other dumb neg. sterotypical reason that guys give aginst blk women. So anyway just wonering why all this hate amongst ourselves and how do you think those attitudes make normal blk women w/o crazy attitudes feel such as my self. Why did all this start. most other races dont have this prob
for those of you saying that most balck men marry blk women ect or that this is ot a prob please checky ur statistics. more than 3 out of 10 men who marry do not marry black and more than 50 percent of black women never marry and i dont think that this is by choice. these statistics are from people magazine issue on interracial dating.
to Apoclolyp.. I'm not braggin about having long hair dude b/c I dont care. I sometimes wear it short. I was using a "dumb" example of what I have hear from some guys about why they dont like blk chicks.