I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...advice please?

[Jessica]

I know it sounds crazy, but I'm set on saving my first kiss for marriage. I'm 21, not 13, and I have really thought through this. It's not impossible to find a guy who'll wait--I'm currently in a serious relationship that has lasted three years. I know I do not need to kiss a guy before I can decide if he's the right guy to marry. Anyway, my question is this: I'm worried that if I kiss at the wedding it'll be awkward and embarrassing. If I do kiss at the wedding, I don't know if I should announce that it's our first kiss because I am proud of it and want people to know, but it could make people think that I'm trying to say I'm better than everyone else. So: Do you think I should kiss at the wedding or save the kiss for later in private? If we do kiss at the wedding, should we announce it? Kissing before the wedding is not an option.