something about marriage?

[cristinasuitor]

Ok i have been married 4 years to my hubby, and we have a wonderful 5 year old little gurl. a couple months ago we were haveing really bad arugeing prob so i moved to give us space an to work things out an it all started with him haveing a way up saying i hurt him by trying to fix things. But well something were said about him missing out on all the other wounderful women out in the wold. An telling me the only reason he does anything with me like sex is for his owen enjoyment and well to get off. But then tells me that he is not in love with me or well feel the same, but comes to me saying they are Questions that he has an has no answers. But to me it seems as well they are statments? Does he really want to be with me? Well last night we went out together it was great went to the movies came home cuddles and he held me .. or is it just a show to make me feel better? Because i do not want to think that. there was things said neither of us ment either...

[traci s]

the is truth in what you say to your partner in a fight. After wards you may say it was out of anger, but I feel it is still the truth. I'm sure he thinks the grass is greener on the other side. It speaks volumes about him when he says these thing to the mother of his child.
be careful I think he may have one foot out the door

[Bob Brown]

Well last night we went out together it was great went to the movies came home cuddles and he held me .. or is it just a show to make me feel better?

Make YOU feel better?

More like making himself feel better............

[cuttieganda]

try to think twice before u do any moves.maybe u still in adjaustment period of marriage.constant communications are very important especialy in couples.

[amazingly intelligent]

"I have sex with you for my own enjoyment and just to get off. I am not in love with you. I am missing out on all the wonderful women in the world. I have questions to which there are no answers. You hurt me by trying to fix things."

There. You couldn't seem to read between your own lines here so I wrote what you said your husband has said to you separate from the smoke you are blowing up your own butt.

Lady if you have even an ounce of self-esteem you need to drop this zero. What a jerk! How pathetic of you to think there is anything here to salvage. Now, if you are a masochist, stay with him and enjoy the abuse. The only problem is you'll raise a doormat in your little girl. She's watching how a man should treat a woman.
A word to the wise is sufficient. Somehow though, I don't think you're too wise. SMARTEN UP AND GET OUT!