30 years of marriage?

[Susie]

i have notice on his cell phone bill that there is the same phone#, before he goes to work and after, sometimes for 1 hour, i confronted him and he said he should be able to have friends without me involved, i am very hurt that he won't be honest with me, he works all the time and i can't see him having time to see someone, i just want him to be a man and be honest with me, any advise and no joking this serious in my eyes. i even e-mailed this person with no response.
i have called the # and said why is thid person talk to my husband so long but never received an answer
i have called the # and the person said the # belong to her son, go figure

[Mrs_Oz]

I would call the number from his phone and see who answers I think you already no the answer though your a woman with intuition I know you know what is going on try marriage counseling I hate to see marriages that have been together for so long just break up its heart breaking

[ZCT]

Sounds like he is cheating on you. If not physically, certainly emotionally.

I find it hard to believe that he is chatting to a man for that long, that often. Most men don't do that.

If you want to be devious, 'borrow' his cell phone as close to the time that he normally calls that number as possible, and see who answers.

[windy]

Since you have been Married 30 yrs. He shouldn't have a
problem with telling You who it is, unless, it's someone
he doesn't want You to know about (???)
I think it's great, that you & him Have been together that long--But, I have seen other Marriages Fall apart after 25,30, 35yrs.
So, I would prepare myself---Just in case.

[Giselina]

I always say "Look and you will find"....If you went into his personal things and found this information, then you just put yourself in a position to complete the mystery. I personally don't go through anyone's things because that is how my parents raised me. I had my bedroom and they never walked in it...they knocked. I'm not sure what made you go through his things, but snooping is not a good thing.

[Alison L]

star 67 and call the number...

[Heather B]

Block your number and call the person?
if it's a woman i would be concerned, but it could just be his friend's wife.
So try a couple of times to get an answering machine.
That's what i would do, if it is a woman looks like you need to sit down with him and talk.

[TRISHMATT]

Whens someone is cheating they want to make you feel bad for asking about it. I would call the number. And tell him that he is acting very disrespectful to you and you will not tolerate it. Investigate more. Dont let it go.

[sweetie]

You already know the answer. I mean you already know he is talking to someone you wouldn't approve of or he would just be honest and tell you. If he is always at work then maybe he is not physically cheating however mentally he is. Don't worry about the number or the person. You have to ask yourself a few questions. Why all of a sudden is my hubby more interested in talking to someone else other then me? Why is my hubby all of a sudden not respecting my feelings? Then the big one do you really care and do you want to try and fix it? YOu need to set your rules you need to let him know what you will and will not except tell him if he wants to live a secret life then live it but that your not going to tollerate it and you want out then. If your good with it tell him fine you live your secreative life but don't fly off the handle when I start living mine. We teach people how to treat us if you let him continue he will.