How do i make wise choices when dating post divorce?

[billygirl]

I got involved with a guy, we really seemed to hit it off and dated for 3 months. He broke it off but we kept in touch. Then we got closer again he kept telling me he missed me, loved me etc. I went to see him but we ended up sleeping together again even though he turned out not to want a relationship at all. I feel so used and naive. How do i work out if a guy really loves me or is just in it for the sex? From a vulnerable and stupid divorcee!!!

[loka]

divorce men? some of them just pretend they are to get you in bed. You really have to be careful with guys claiming they are divorce you have to investigate them before you get in bed with them.

[Bea M]

I have been in that stop. But to tell you the truth i am still not divorced yet but i live like i am cause it cost me too much to get a divorce. my husband and i have not been together in 4 years. i moved on and have a baby with my boyfriend. but before i settled down i was with other guys. Trust me i fell for a couple but i learned they were using me. But there was one i was in love with but we are still close friends. Trust me if he is having second thoughts it is not going to happen. Stand your guard and put walls up. and you will find the right guy you want and need. DON'T GIVE IN ANYMORE i know it is hard when you have feelings but you will feel alot but.