Why is marriage such a big deal to women when they could just live with their...

[mryungbp]

...boyfriend? Don't tell god will have a problem with it, because I don't buy that. If you believe in a loving and merciful god, he would want you and the partner to be happy even if that meant to live together without being married.

I myself don't plan to marry but instead have the live in option. Its much better anyway. marriage only causes problems and heartache.

[Kody W]

Women are stupid.

[loving life]

Because we think that we have a better chance of keeping him and him not cheating!
But it doesnt work

[Zabes]

Why is sex such a big deal to guys when they could just "do it themselves"

[????? ??????? ??? ??????]

Because women want complete control of the money. That's all they get married for anyway is the money. If you're not married, they don't have that complete control, and you're still a virile being.

[Beware of Dog]

My husband was actually the one begging to get married. I happy being married, but I was happy single, too. It's a personal choice, and my I just say, there are problems and heartache in any relationship-with or without being married.

[dude.]

Community Property

[CrAiZZiEst floWErs]

i am going to be blunt as to why i prefer marriage with the right one....this does not apply to all guys but to quite a few of them....

guys have floppy penis'...they can run around sticking them in just about anything and women feel that if they are married perhaps this will bolt his tool down the the bench...if you know what i mean....

that is besides the other reasons of a loving and commited relationship!!!!!!!

[tres.eviltwin5]

I've done both. Believe me they are the same thing, only difference is the ring. I recommend friends with benefits.