My husband and i have both cheated is there hope for this marriage?

[Deedee26]

Our marriage has lasted 1year and 8 months. 8 months of that time we were separated. I left do to his anger issues and I really believed we were over. We have actually been together since i was 15 years old im 23 now. He has been the only love of my life. We now have a beautiful 2 yr old son together. During our separation we both saw other ppl he had a serious relationship after sleeping with one other woman ,while i slept with several men during that span of time. He wont forgive me for my actions and says that if he knew all that i had done while we were separated he would have never took me back. Though i had more encounters i never really cared for any of the men I was really insecure and lost. He seems to think that my actions were worse then his. I want to put this all behind us thats why i admitted the truth. Ive always loved him, but i feel like he will never forgive me and im the only one doing the forgiving. He makes me pay each and everday. I feel like im slowly dying.

[originalquene]

have you tell him all of this?

you should