Married for 2.5 years , wife up and just leaves wants a divorce?

[Gary D]

married for 2.5 years toghter 5 years two kids 9 boy and 12 girl past marriage , the ex is never see's them every 2 month for a day or 2 ,I never pushed these kids on my wife at all I was mr. Mom and thats the way she wanted i was fine that.. we have our normal disagreements but never any real fights I love this women and I thought she loved me. I'm 45 she's 31, she has a drinking problem and blames me for being a enabler. I was a little resistant to stop in the drinkin (2-3 beers a day)
but she used to still sneak drinks. I lost my job 12/24/07 after 28 years. I was heart brooken told her how sad I was came home and had a beer.
she saw that and said I want a divorce.For the next two month I went to12 step to learn more and did other classes
for myself and learn to live with a person with a drinking disease. she dont care,good for you. I stoped drinking she still won't talk to me or the children that miss her alot.I give her ,"her space" and send a flower every 3 weeks .