How to deal with a previously perfect wife asking for a sudden divorce?

[bigb]

I am married for nearly 2 years. My wife is very good. I am Indian and work in the UK. She was living with me in the UK. We had minor disagreements and arguments in the years we lived together. But we lived as a good couple. I had an argument with her uncle a week before she went home, as he was trying to involve in my family and personal issues. Last month she went to India. Within 4 days she started speaking bad of me. When I spoke with her, she is asking for a 'Divorce'. She tells her parents and relatives that I abused her - and has blown out of proportions, even minor incidents. But when I speak over phone she tells me that its because I insulted her uncle over phone. She is non stop now. She seems to be totally against me. I dont know whats happening with her. Is she suffering from depression (they have a family history). Or did she hide her hatred for me for so long or is she listening to her uncle. In anycase, what should I do now? Thank you in advance
Her family has blocked all communications with her. I legal advisor has advised me not to go to meet her.
Her family has blocked all communications with her. My legal advisor has advised me not to go to India for the moment.
I had sent emails apologising to her for any mistakes I have done - unconditionally.
I am not telling I am perfect - I had done mistakes - I whole heartedly regret it. That time i thought they were small things. One of the main problem was that she always has this habit of complaining about me to her dad. She is very good but child like. I always wished her well being. At the moment I am just keeping my calm, waiting for the strom to settle. I am not sure if things will calm down. I hope so. But I am also prepared for anything (though it is extremely painful and difficult)

[Dr. zane]

well maybe she feels like you did abuse her,depression doesnt cause you to act like that and get all crazy. i think her uncle is a strong influence when it comes to this, if he's feeding her all this negitive information about you and shes getting him involved in your business he could easily be a big part of this!i would ask her why she feels as if you are abusive towards her and question why she wants a divorce.try to remain calm about this hole thing i know it must be hard

[crazy_wife2008]

she is most likely listening to her family just give her the divorce and that will be that

[gold_iam]

Give her what she wants-maybe the butterfly will return.
What is the abuse. What is any abuse in a marraige good thing to ask a couceler

[peggin_beast]

no matter how small dude, a "inceident is an inceident".

She's smart to have left you. Just cause you have a tally wacker, doesn't mean your in Control.

[Internet Troll]

sounds like your minor is major to her......U insulted her family, she was unhappy before now she has family to back her up....Give her space but u gotta really take a look at yourself, it can't be a one sided aurgument

[AlenaT]

well accept that fact and let her divorce you...there's nothing you can do at this point...just do not fight :-)

[Mare027]

Leave her alone for a while. Maybe she just needs time to sort things out. If she's telling stories about you abusing her, then who knows what's really going on with her? She must be telling them that for a reason. If she contacts you, be happy to listen to whatever's on her mind. If she doesn't contact you, be happy that you had your time together and then try to move forward.

[rider279]

I went through a simile situation , about 8 years ago. Let me tell you get ready for one Hell of a ride. The best thing for you to do is get all of your assets in order now . Get a good attorney NOW. Be ready for the worst , If things get better that is great but don't wait.

[IT'S JUST LIFE]

wow.... sad to hear that....but unfortunately people don't change over night... she most have felt like this for a long time... I wouldn't recommend it for you to go to India at all... you don't know what awaits you if you do.... I'm sure she'll be back, when she does... you talk to her then....! good luck