My views on sex, dating and marriage. What do you think??

[JD80]

First off, I believe it's important for people to wait for marriage before having ANY form of sexual relations, especially women. But i do understand that the world is not like that and people have the free will to do as they please.

But for me for instance, when i am dating a girl that is a virgin, and a moment comes where she may want to do something sexual, i tend to stop and think about where the relationship is going. If i can see myself marrying her, then i would like to think i would tell her to wait until after we get married. If i can't see any long term future. Then I'd tell them that i'm not the right one for them and they should wait until after they are married.

Now, on the other hand. When i am going out with a girl, who i know for a fact has had sex before. I don't hesitate to do it. But in the back of my mind i know that it is a short term thing and that i could never marry a women who has had any form of sexual relations with another man.

Any thoughts??
Obviously i'm not a virgin, but now that i look back at my earlier years. I do think i would have been better off waiting for marriage. I know i could avoid sex now. But i don't believe in the idea of becoming a "born again virgin", once it's gone it's gone for good.

Although some of you might think that i am sexist for thinking girls should be virgins, well thats your opinion, and your entitled to it.

Fact is i have ENORMOUS respect for women. And i know how guys can be, and don't like seeing girls who have been lied to and mistreated for sex. All that "i love you" and "i'll be with you forever" that magically disappears after sex (not always but sometimes, especially to younger kids).

Let me put it this way, the day i become a father, i will explain to my children that it's important to wait. Whether they are male or female, it doesn't matter.