my boyfriend is going through a divorce & keeps complaining about money we...

[Madison Luv]

...both make the same but hes in debt? - when things are more concrete i want us to get a place together but wont take all the $ responsibilty
- i want him to get a second job but its not my place to ask hes just staying with me for now
- i'm concerned about his $ habits & dont want them to affect how out future will be

[apples]

umm who says he's going to stay... you might just be a paycheck... he's a loser and your a rebound

[Heather ?Lillie’s Mom]

I hate to break it too you, but, you already have a place together...YOUR place. And if he is not contributing to the household expenses than you already have all of the financial responsibilities.

[jewels15]

Look, he is living with you and is not divorced yet. He complains about money and you are concerned about his money habits? The number one thing people people argue about in relationships is money. You should be concerned about more than that. This guy is waving red flags. Get him out of your house until he gets a divorce. Then let him get his finances in order. He will bring you down with him. GET HIM OUT!!! This is your future and it does not look pretty.You can do better.

[What Now?]

Well first of all you shouldn't be dating him until he has gotten himself together. He's getting a divorce, which means he needs to get over his wife before he starts dating again and you need to protect yourself by getting out of that relationship at least until he figures out what he wants in life.