I'm pregnant and I don't think that it's my husbands and I want to...

[goldigger]

...divorce him, but get some money I have been married 11 month to my husband his family is rich and they made us have a prenup. I have had a lover thorugh our whole marriage and I think I'm pregnant but I'm not sure it's my husbands. if I dovorce him and marry my lover will I get anything? because my lover is poor. and I usually give him some of my husbands money. my husband doesn't suspect anything but if I get a divorce and it's not my husbands baby but I don't tell him that it's my lovers can I get a really high child support?

[frankiechocolate]

Hi goldie. great question.

you got some really strong answers prob. most people don't understand what you're going through. I'm not sure I understand what your going though but lets talk, okay?

first, why get rid of the husband?
you loved him enough to say I do so how come you don't now?

having a lover on the side is always tempting but it usually doesn't work out. I'm not sure why, maybe it's like chocolate cake? you know, you always want it and you can't really get enough so it makes its special.

but if you had a room full of chocolate cake you'd pretty soon get sick of it.

that's the way a secret lover is-- i think anyway.


I understand you wanting to provide for your baby. that's a God given love and protection that you have. good for you.

but maybe you should stop thinking with your emotions and think with your head?

You don't know who's baby it is. it could be your hubby's right?

since you asked for advice, here's mine. love your husband. you've had enough chocolate cake.

your husband can provide for you and your baby.

find a way to get back in love.

talk to a priest or a pastor.

it's sorta like losing weight.

if you really want to you can do it.

you just might find the love you lost.

now, sweetie, I'm gonna pray for you.

dear Jesus, please guide this young woman.

show her the way and give her the grace and faith to follow it.

amen.

send me a pix of that beautiful baby sweetie.

frankiechocolate@yahoo.com

[MissLegacy]

I guess you'll have a poor baby like your poor lover