How much sex is normal...in long term relationships/marriage?!?

[Teresa J]

just a nosey question really to see how much sex people tend to have once they've been togther for a while?? how long have you been with the same person and how often are you doing it?!

[tk_bhunter]

Every other day before marriage after marriage well start using your hand cause you will be lucky if you get it once a month

[Ginny Jin]

I heard twice a week is normal but I guess it depends on the couple and their situation.

[Jessica]

well, it is a bit personal but I'll answer as long as you are wondering if your sex life is normal. by the way, everyone has a different sex life. i've been dating someone for 8 years and the past 2 years have been full of problems (cheating on each other, he dumping me for a month and dating a real skanky whore!). ANYWAYS! Right now, we are at once a week WITH CONDOMS! 'cause of the trust issue. The first couple years, we had sex probably 5 times a week and then it fizzled down to maybe only 3 for a while. I THINK IT IS VERY NORMAL FOR SEX TO FIZZLE ONCE YOU'VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR A WHILE AND THE WAY TO REMEDY THIS PROBLEM ISN'T THAT HARD (i need to take my own advice). 1. don't let yourself go downhill once you've already 'snagged' him. fix yourself up, work out!, eat right, and put something 'naughty' on once in a while for him. 2. sometimes guys in long term relationships get lazy about making the first move and you need to do it! 3. do some romantic weekends once in a while. my bf and i went to an indoor waterpark with a room with a fireplace and a jacuzzi. we had awesome sex all weekend not to mention how much fun it was to act like kids again on those water rides! 4. don't get drunk when you go out and mingle with friends. i've done some very stupid things when i was drunk and upset him greatly. i do have an alcohol problem though. if you need substances like alcohol and drugs to get turned on, it's a bad sign. don't worry, i'm getting help. 5. DO NOT NAG HIM. That'll put him out of the mood so fast, it'd make your head spin. He'll instantly see his mother telling him to clean up his room and mow the lawn. SERIOUSLY. THERE ARE MANY MORE THINGS BUT THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THINGS I'VE OBSERVED IN almost 20 years of dating (3 bfs were more than a year relationship). GOOD LUCK!

[norfolkgal89]

wel normally i get it twice aweek

[loam]

Sex keeps a relationship or marriage going. we've been together for 10yrs and my bf is a student and he bearly sees me, so, if the chance comes for him, he gives it to me almost every three days, and if he goes away, sometimes i get to do it once every three months and that makes it more sweet and enjoyable whenever it keeps long. But i will say doing it regular keeps the relationship going and makes it active.

[becki]

iv been in 3 long term relationships and they've all been different, the 1st one we didn't have sex all that much, the 2nd abit we had 2 kids and enjoyed our time together but the 3rd is out of this world we no each other inside out and we no how to make the other weak, and good sex life is down to how well you no the other person, iv been with my hubby to be for 6 years and we have the best sex life ever.

[becki]

iv been in 3 long term relationships and they've all been different, the 1st one we didn't have sex all that much, the 2nd abit we had 2 kids and enjoyed our time together but the 3rd is out of this world we no each other inside out and we no how to make the other weak, and good sex life is down to how well you no the other person, iv been with my hubby to be for 6 years and we have the best sex life ever.