my problem is my in laws they are the one who arranged our marriage my husband

[dilsha m]

is their only son and he is? fully controlled by them in each and every decisions in life.on my sister's marriage my husband was not able to attend his father and mother came and give some amount from my husband's account but the present was named by his father and my parents gave the amount back on his sister's marriage.and i felt that i didn't give anything for my sister.and i am having a daughter of ninemonth and they dont call her by the name i gave her instead they call her by the pet name their daughter gave her.and my sister in law is someone who always needs physical closeness like keeping feet over my husband like that intimacy i feel akward on this infront of me. and i told my husband my daughter needs good example infront of her so pls avoid this.and my mother in law says that he has to kiss hug and all stuff to his sister. and mil now a days not talks to me but onlyto my hus.she is so interfearing that she asks why to give babyfoods no need she dont want my husband to spend much money on us.wht to do?
my husband is having good job and he is paying
my husband is having good job and he is paying