Should sex be saved till marriage, till the right person, or it doesnt matter?

[AngelLuv20]

Everyone from around the world, can view sex as many different things. Some people said sex should be preserved to marriage, some people say sex should be for the right person. While, some people said sex is just sex. What is your opinion on sex, and if you are a girl who doesnt wait until marriage, how do you know the guy likes you for you and not your body if you have sex with him, and if you are a guy vice versa.

[Graham R]

Sex these days is really just a milestone in somebodies life. To lose ones virginity is like getting your drivers license (nothing meant by that) It is just a graduation from another aspect of youth hood.


Although I think sex should be thought about, I do not See any problem in having pre-marital sex. If you are with somebody and you are both sexually attracted to each other (and over 14, hopefully) I do not see why it is seen as a dirty thing or a bad thing. It is just something that needs to be thought out and done safely, it should not be a bad thing

[djmfan08]

until you find the right person. someone could get married to the wrong person, and waste their first time, which should be special
i happen to disagree that love happens only after high school (person above^) i am still with my high school sweetheart, and it was the first time for both of us, which was even more special
but of course it's all a matter of opinion

[miss_tx08]

It should be saved for someone that you truly love and care for. And by this, you will only know the true meaning of that after high school. I used to think you should wait until marriage but I believe that if two people are truly in love, then that kind of bond will be special and meaningful for both sides.

Also, if he loves you just for you and not sex, then he will wait until you're ready and respect your wishes.