What if a guy says he loves you but can't be in a relationship because I need

[Southie]

time to heal from my divorce? I am going through a divorce & met a guy at school & we talked for 5 months prior to meeting to spend time together. We had am amazing wk together. We had instant chemistry, were extremely affectionate & I met a lot of his closest friends. At the end of the wk he said he didn't want to get in a relationship because I am not divorced yet, I have issues to work out & I need time to heal after my divorce. Well the day we both flew back to our homes, he told me he thought about me all day & loved me so much that he felt sick to his stomach. He said he was second guessing his decision, but wanted to do what was best for him & me in the current situation. He told me that we may not be able to be together now, but doesn't mean that we can't in the future. I stepped back & let him call me because I felt like he didn't want me & then he tells me he loves me. So confusing! He is gone for 2 mths & called to tell me he may not be able to contact me. Been 2 wks since we talked. What do I do?