Need divorce advice please?

[luannb38]

I am wanting to possibally do my own.....have kids but rent so no property involved. Never done this before so please help me!!!

[kathy]

By doing this on your own do you mean without lawyers? And if you have kids, not having a lawyer isn't the best idea. I know it sounds cheaper and I thought about it myself and honestly only you know your situation at home without paying to tell a lawyer as well. Depending on where you live, what you own and what was purchased during the marriage, you will have custody issues, possibilities of community property issues, child support, alimony, etc. If you can agree on everything down the line you can possibly do it on your own but there are some things to consider!!! Good luck! I'm in the same boat, I'm in the process of getting a divorce.

[Tomasi T]

If you are married, there is to be no divorce.
You must remain true to your vow.
If you divorce and marry again, you commit adultery and that is sin in the face of God.
If you divorce and want to remain single , stay that way

[Amy]

You can get a cut and dry divorce - you can ask your local neighborhood legal services program to help you, and if you qualify you can get assistance in a low cost divorce program. (as low as $150 - no hidden fees)
There is a divorce that is just the two parties agreeing to divorce with no property/custody/alimony etc. involved.
Contact them and they will help you.

[miwls59]

Having personal experience in this matter, I would recommend retaining a lawyer even though you may not own a home or have a good deal of monetary assets.

A lawyer can guide you through this process and make sure that your interests are properly represented.

This can include alimony and child support and the division of personal property. Please don't be in a hurry and work with a lawyer who specializes in divorce.

I hope that you find strength and comfort in this painful process. Take care.

[STFU_0123]

You and your soon to be ex husband can make a deal that you both can agree on. Make arrangments for the kids to see both you and him. This will help so there is not fighting over things and what not. I still suggest you get a lawyer, but if you both can come to an understanding you may not have to go to court.