Am I right or wrong about seeing my military fiance?

[scozze]

So I just got back from seeing my fiance in San Diego, CA (I live in PA). I saw him for 18 days. Since he's in the Navy & stationed out there we only see each other every couple months. The plan was that he would come home in july & go on a family vacation with me & then I would see him in late august for his birthday and b4 school starts for me. Well my family won't let him come on vacation with us & I have too many orientation & class scheduling dates in august to see him, so he's decided to take leave in august & come see me, but he wants me to see him in July & I said no because I really need to work & I know my parents won't approve. Since I'm 20yrs old, My fiance says I can do what I want & that there's no reason to not see him. I told him this is our lives & we just can't see each other every month, & I will see him in august. He's pretty mad at me and I just think he doesn't understand. Am I wrong here?

[JessS]

He should respect your wishes. You can't see him for legitimate reasons, not "just because you don't want to."I don't think you're wrong at all. He wants to see you because he cares for you, but he still needs to take into consideration what you say. All the best of luck!

[MrsMitchell]

Well if this is gonna be a long term deal, then he better get used to not seeing you! Whats gonna happen when hes deployed? I can see his perspective about you are old enough to do what you want, and hes right. Do what you want. Dont let your parents make the decision for you, but dont let him make the decision for you either! Make it for yourself