In your opinion would it be easier living with someone who shares everything or someone who......?

[branofwinterfell]

shares very little, in the way of feelings and emotions.

I am the share everything individual in my relationship and my husband is the share very little individual.

Pros for a share it all mentality are that you generally know where you stand with him or her, cons could be that some things you just don't want to know, and it could possibly change your perception of that person.

Pros for a keep it in mentality, I can't think of any, cons...you never know what is really going on, at least in my relationship.

What would be easier to live with in your opinion, what are some pros and cons you can think of, would it be better to strike a balance between both individuals, how would you go about doing that?