It's so confusing....me and my ex....opinions please!!?

[weeze1988]

Basically me and my fella had been together for 2.5yrs and he split with me because he ws unsure how he felt about me, I told him he would end up comming back to me and after about 2/3weeks we got back together. Another 4 months down the line he splits with me again for the same reason and after a couple of weeks I find out he is seeing someone else. (No he was not seeing her behind my back) Well after about 3month of being with this other female, they split because she is still in love with her ex and he was unsure about his feelings. My ex has been giving me very mixed signals, eg telling me he still loves and cares for me, chatting loads and seeing loads of eachother, and then he goes cold, telling me I pressure him too much. Of the 6months that we have been apart I still love him as much as the first time we met, but how long do I put up with not knowing where I stand, when we have spoken about our situation all he said was, I don't want to label us as friends ....cotinued...
conintued....He says he does not want to label as just friends or in a relationship but he just wants to take things slow and rebuild a frinedship and see where that goes....what I can't get my head round is whether I should go with it, or say well I can keep hanging around kinda thing....all this has not stopped me seeing my mates or doing anything taht I want to do, but do I give up on it? I still love him but should I put myself through the feeling of not knowing?? Your opinions are greatly received as you are giving an outsiders and unbiased veiw which is what I need to be able to look at both angles!
Thankyou nikki, as much as the other answers make perfect sense, I can't understand how people can give up on someone they love so easily. To explain more, what has been said by my ex is that he still loves me but does nto want to get back into a relationship while he is still sorting his head out. and once everything is clear in his mind then he can think about his future. I don't want to jump straight back into a serious relationship, i've been through enough trauma (family stuff, bf stuff) over this year to last me a lifetime, but I am not a fan of lifes uncertainities!!