Another mother at my daughter's preschool wants my husband, should I ignore her?

[?SoCalMami?]

This woman is a single mom, I try hard to be friendly with her and she avoids me and rolls her eyes at me. Yesterday we were all there for an event I tried saying hi to her and she ignored me.,.later I was sitting with my son and she didn't know we were sitting there she saw my husband and her eyes lit up and went' up to him and tried to start a conversation with him he nicely brushed her offf and came to sit with us...I just thought that this woman does not care that he's married...but honestly I didn't feel like saying anything to her she's the one that looks desperate..my friends tell me I should kiss him in front of her but I don't feel like it I don't have to prove anything to anyone.
I'm not trying to be her friend I just want to be civil because our kids are in the same class. What's wrong with that?
I know the kissing thing is stupid but that is what I was advised...I realize how lame that sounds.

[eeyore6838]

Hunny, first stop trying to be her friend, she doesn't like you and you don't have to prove anything, your husband already brushed her off.

[krystal_loves_you88]

just have your husband tell her he's not interested(make sure he does it in front of you) and that he's happily married...

[iamhere]

Sounds to high school-ish. What you do is ignore it as long as your husband doesn't flirt back. When it really gets to you re-inforce by talking to the preschool and letting them know that one of the parents is harassing your family and you don't feel comfortable with her around. This way your not confronting her as she is being childish and needs to grow up but rather getting the school involved so that it embarrasses her enough to stop. Be aware that if she is this immature to do what she has been doing its safe to say when the school talks to her she might retaliate so be careful. Good luck.

[elvlayarvvi]

very glad to hear that husband came to sit with you, and brushed her off... =) as long as he keeps blowing her off, you have nothing to worry about...

no, don't kiss him... just keep letting him handle it the way he has been... however, should she "touch" or "handle" or "hug" your husband, or any sort of physical contact, you, go to her and say, don't touch my husband ever again, then report it to the day care bosses! =) this is harrassment... toward you... and the bosses will tell her to never touch him again...

oops, pre-school, hehe...

she must think she's really hot to trot, huh? someone needs to put her in her place...soon...!


good luck!

[crymeariver]

Sounds like your husband handled it well, if he were to have carried on a conversation and you would of had to have gone and got him to sit with you and your son then I would be concerned.