Help !!!!!!!!!! i cheated on my husband this was back in dec......?

[gata8636]

First of all He Lost Respect 4 U,Hey could be Cheating on u just for pay backMarrage is a bond...... but anywaysI think he feels that you dont love him, Do you try to show it?

[Dani9845]

It's in the past for you, but your husband is dealing with the ultimate betrayal and he needs to be allowed to work it out. Ask him if he wants to work it out or leave you and then deal with it from there. I don't really feel sorry for you though... what he's doing is not HALF as bad as what you did to him. Not even close.NOT TREATING YOU WITH RESPECT DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE GO AHEAD TO CHEAT!!!! It gives you license to divorce him, not sleep around. Grow up!

[MistyD7755]

If u've BOTH cheated, then u both need 2 go 2 counseling especially if u want 2 keep the marriage 2gether. If he can't 4get then there's no way he can 4give.

[conshy35778]

Hey Leslie, Try not to suck any dicks on the way from the parking lot!

[mexi_fry_18290]

If your husband cant get over it maybe ya'll need some counseling and if that doesnt work maybe ya'll just are not meant to be. Obvisously you know you messed up. He does not have the right to be dis repectful to you. Do not allow this kind of behavior. Its rude and degrading. He should never talk to his wife this way. good luck!

[IveGotMyAnswer]

You guys need to get counseling. If he agreed to stay together after he learned you cheated than he should be willing to leave the past in the past. If he can't get over it, it's a lost cause and you guys should just go ahead and split because he will never let it go and that will cause alot of problems in the long run................Good Luck:-)

[Torgo4861]

Tell your hubby the ball is in his court: he can either forgive you or divorce you, but he can’t keep mistreating you.

[babycakes7795]

Unfortunatly everyone makes mistakes at some point. It probably will never totally stop, he will always feel betrayed and scorned wouldnt you? You two need to sit down and talk about alot of things like counseling or divorce or what you want to go on because neither of you can live like this. You have to explain that you need to come to an equal medium own up to what you did and ask him to stop talking about it or unfortunatly end it. You already know he hurt there is no point in dragging it out forever. Fix it fast or it will become a burden and you two will not evern be able to stand eachother.

[owise13827]

all I can say is good luck...seems remorse would be a good start for some, some will just never get over it so decide what you want, where you want it and with whom do you want it with....good luck

[AdamW3984]

What do you want advice about? How to fix what you caused? It's your own fault, lady. You are lucky, because I would've left you the day I found out. Honestly, why cheat?? Just divorce him first and then sleep with whoever you want.