why are single moms so mean to the guys that won't date them??

[conan]

i've seen this alot. i'm 27 yrs old & i have never been married nor do i have kids. i do not want kids. so when i tell the girl the truth she tries to make me feel guilty for not going out w/ her, like i owe her something. i dont want to be a parent & i don't want to raise any children especially those by someone else. & they get mad. i guess these women want me to lie yea right. i want to be w/ a woman that has no kids & has never been married. just because i don't want to date a single mother doesn't mean i'm mean or selfish. i want to have my freedom, my independance, & to be able to go out & do what i want to do when i want to do it & travel , etc. i'm not married to her & i'm not the kids father. its my life & i have a right to my choices & to be happy. i know women feel this way when it comes to dating men w/ kids. i just want to know how many other people feel this way & are single mothers looking to date are looking for scapegoats.
i am honest w/ them from the beginning right when when first talk. thank u i never lead anyone on.

[Ginger R]

No. Just you.

[Doll 101]

I'm glad that you're letting them know this before things get too far. I don't think you're being selfish. Why should you be stuck raising other people's children. Now, that being said, you may meet the perfect woman and she may have children and you must understand that it's a package deal. I suggest you travel and have your fun while still young and not worry about settling down with anyone anytime soon.

[Becci S]

We're not all like that. Please don't group us all together.