could this be the reason???help?

[t3_d8032]

it all begins when we had a fight...it was good after that!!!but then some days after i've got my results...so she knew that i would go for my study in few months and then the night i've got my result she said that she is ok to break up(as i've talk about it when i was angry)then she would say things like she never thought of waiting for me,that she doesn't to get hurt when i will be gone as se doesn't know when i will come back,then she said that she maybe wanted to date other guys and so on!but then few days we came back together...she would say that she knows that being with me means not to flirt with other guys...but she would do without it!!!but the subjet about me going abroad was something taboo...she said that she wasn;t prepared to talk about it!but then days after,we argue a bit and there where it's all ended!!almost 3 months now...i can't even talk to her...as she would always hurt me!!now it's as if she has made a new llife...new friends,new look and new lifestyle!!she flirts with so many guys..and even have a new bf!!!once she told me that her way to move on was to be friends with some guys!!!it as if she wants me to pay for the night we had a fight!!as i know she still hasn't forgiven me.she said that she doesn't love me anymore...and to move on!but then would still give me a last kiss!even though i think she has a new bf or maybe was going to date him!am i right to think that whatshe is becoming now is partly because of me???or is it that she is just changing??

[yhuan]

your ex is just upset... she changes everthing hoping that you will see what you have lost... its not really the fight that ended your rel. its the thought of you going away.. she wants you to have the educ. you need but somehow she cant deal with the thought of you going away. looks like she really loves you and if she is still is inlove with you.. thats why she is trying so hard to move on... im sorry dude..

[ME8052]

i think that she is not able to cope with how the relationship would have developed, and so decided to move on - this does not imply that she doesn't like/love you anymore and she may be hiding this after the continuous fights. But the fact that three months passed and she does not want to talk to you and she made so many changes, she seems determined to continue with her life and i am sorry to say but i feel that you are no longer part of this life even though there may still be sentiments, but she made a decision to move on. Try to do the same... goodluck!

[BrittniNicole]

Hon, I want to help you but I cannot understand what you are saying. Could you repost it in a more understandable way please?!

[PS3babe]

maybe it's true that she couldn't cope...or she felt humiliated and isolated, so she wants you to feel the same now.